Tuesday, January 29, 2019

In a recent 2016 movie, The Accountant, there was a famous line stated by the lead actor. In the movie his character said that he would like to have a relationship but just does not know how. Many people are quick to say someone is abnormal or 'just not right'. They like to say they have some mental condition.

One such case they decided it was better to isolate him in hopes of him developing better relational skills. In a recent IQ test, it was shown he has an 180 IQ and does desire to be able to relate to people. In his own words he just does not know how to.

Instead of automatically assuming someone is mentally wrong, maybe you should consider they are different because they have a higher IQ, can learn quickly, or has interests that are different than your own.

Imagine what the world is missing because these psychologists jump to conclusions of mental deficiency. Just consider the Einsteins and Steve Jobs these, as I prefer to call them psyco doctors, have prevented from reaching their potentials.

Perhaps you know someone who just seems a little different. Before you jump to conclusions, maybe you should make an effort to get to know them. You never know, they may be willing to make friends and relate to people but just don't know how.

Remember: Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. Luke 6:37

Wednesday, January 9, 2019

Children are a gift from God. But there are parents out there that don't care about their children.

What is the difference between successful and not. Look at Bill Gates. He was adopted, however, his adopted father was involved in his life. He worked on various projects around the house. Simple things such as working on the car were part of his growing up. Along the way teaching their children as they work.

Successful people and even children will say they got their start working with their father on various things. Some it was just working on a lot of one kind of project. This is the time children develop their passions in life.

Compare that to those who go out and shoot up schools, rob the local store, or any number of destructive behavior. You hear their stories, and despite the differences, there is one common theme ; at was not involved in their daily lives. Many their father was just not part of their lives.

Now we do see those who choose not to let their absent fathers or mothers have a negative effect of their lives. They too become successful.

What we do know is children who have a father who is there for them everyday and work with them on different projects or even everyday tasks develop a drive in them. This drive carries them throughout many aspects of life.

So if you have children, be there for them. Teach them what you know. Work with them each day. They will thank you some day.